A Love That Lasts

Our Wedding Photo Taken a long time ago and that's all I'm going to say.
Our Wedding Photo
Taken a long time ago.

Bob and I have been married 22 years.  People comment on us holding hands and occasionally tell us they have taken a photo of us.  We have always held hands, but now it’s even more important because of Bob’s loss of eyesight.

Younger people also ask how we’ve stayed together “so long.”  We work at it.  We still say “I love you” several times a day and we also say those two magic words “Thank You.”  We are best friends who work, play and share everything together.  Living together as separate individuals each going our own way doesn’t make sense to us.

Love that lasts is not a “feeling.”  That comes and goes.  Love that lasts is a commitment to stay together, to work together and love together despite the hardships life throws at you and life will through hardships at you.  New love is a glorious thing.  But to make it last — that takes work.

Thought for Today

Martin Luther King leaning on a lectern. Deuts...
Martin Luther King leaning on a lectern. Deutsch: 1964: Martin Luther King Português: Martin Luther King (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

“Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it.  Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it.  Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it.”

— Martin Luther King Jr. ((1929 – 1968)

[Source:http://www.quotationspage.com/subjects/love/%5D

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“We can only learn to love by loving.” — Iris Murdoch (1919 – 1999), O Magazine, February 2004  [Source: http://www.quotationspage.com/subjects/love/%5D

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Walden.
Walden. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

“There is no remedy for love but to love more.” —  Henry David Thoreau (1817 – 1862), Journal, July 25, 1839 [Source: http://www.quotationspage.com/subjects/love/%5D

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Love
Love (Photo credit: Noël Zia Lee)

“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.  —Sophocles (496 BC-406 BC)  [Source: http://www.quotationspage.com/subjects/love/%5D

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English: Albert Einstein, official 1921 Nobel ...
English: Albert Einstein, official 1921 Nobel Prize in Physics photograph. Français : Albert Einstein, photographie officielle du Prix Nobel de Physique 1921. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

“I believe in intuition and inspiration. Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution. It is, strictly speaking, a real factor in scientific research.”  ‘Cosmic Religion: With Other Opinions and Aphorisms’ 1931, p. 97  Author: Einstein, Albert [Source:  http://www.sourcedquotes.com/Imagination-quotes]

For another great Einstein post check out today’s post on Gluten Free Fiend.  

February Follower of the Month: Carrie of Gluten Free Fabulous

Our February Follower of the Month is Carrie of Gluten Free Fabulous.  She is sharing her asparagus salad recipe with us.  Carrie has a great attitude and wonderful recipes using lots of fresh seasonal ingredients.  You will want to visit her even if you don’t eat gluten free.

Asparagus Salad

asparagus salad

I’ve always liked asparagus, however I either grill it – or broil it. I wanted to find a way to have it raw and taste delicious, and I’m quite happy with how this turned out! It’s fresh, simple and healthy. Asparagus is packed full of vitamin K, and fiber. After switching to a gluten free diet I had to become more aware of fiber and where I was getting it from. The bell pepper adds vitamin C and vitamin A, and adds some great flavor.

Ingredients:
1 bunch of asparagus, thinly sliced
1/4 of a red onion finely diced
1 red bell pepper, diced
1/4 cup red wine vinegar
salt and pepper, to taste
olive oil
feta cheese, to taste

Wash and remove the bottom of the asparagus stems. Thinly slice the stalks and the tips and place into a large bowl. Dice up the red pepper, removing the seeds, and add to the bowl. Dice up the onion real fine, and add to the bowl. Sprinkle a bit of salt and pepper on top and add the red wine vinegar, and a bit of olive oil (I used about 2 tablespoons) combining well. When plating add the feta cheese and a bit more salt, pepper, olive oil if you like.

Makes 2-3 large salads or 4-6 side salads. Feel free to skip the feta for a dairy free salad.

About the Author:  After finding out I was gluten intolerant I had to relearn how to cook for myself and for my family. I cook meals inspired from all over the globe while supporting my local and organic farmers as much as possible. Filling your body with good healthy food nourishes not just your body but your mind as well. I love big flavors and food full of taste that’s fun.  Stop by and say “Hi” to Carrie at http://carriegf.wordpress.com/

Thought for Today

English: Painting by children, International P...
English: Painting by children, International Peace Day 2009, Geneva. Français : Peinture par des enfants, Journée internationale de la Paix 2009, Genève. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

“There is no trust more sacred than the one the world holds with children.  There is no duty more important than ensuring that their rights are respected, that their welfare is protected, that their lives are free from fear and want and that they grow up in peace.” —Kofi Annan, in “Foreword” to The State of the World’s Children 2000 [Source: http://en.wikiquote.org/]

 

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Deutsch: Viktor Frankl
Deutsch: Viktor Frankl (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

“Don’t aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run—in the long-run, I say!—success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it.”― Viktor E. Frankl [Source:  Man’s Search for Meaning]