“Mindfulness practice means that we commit fully in each moment to be present; inviting ourselves to interface with this moment in full awareness, with the intention to embody as best we can an orientation of calmness, mindfulness, and equanimity right here and right now.”
— Jon Kabat-Zinn, Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life
“Mindfulness is simply being aware of what is happening right now without wishing it were different; enjoying the pleasant without holding on when it changes (which it will); being with the unpleasant without fearing it will always be this way (which it won’t).” – James Baraz
How well we have lived
How well we have loved
How well we have learned to let go”
― Jack Kornfield
―Tich Nhat Hanh, Peace in Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life
Jon Kabat-Zin PhD is a scientist, writer, and meditation teacher who works toward bringing mindfulness into mainstream medicine and society. He defines mindfulness as “paying attention in a particular way; On purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” As I was preparing for this month I read a number of definitions of mindfulness, but this is my favorite for it’s simplicity and straightforwardness. This is not something that should be difficult to understand, now actually putting it into practice in our modern world is another matter.
Let’s Break down this definition, shall we?
- Paying attention. I think paying attention may be becoming a lost art. We are so focused on multi-tasking and getting everything done that we may miss important details. Paying attention requires focus.
- On purpose. This is something you decide to do. You commit to paying attention and observing the present moment in a non-judgmental way.
- In the present moment. Right now. That means not thinking about what you had or dinner last night, or worrying about that work project that is due tomorrow, or even wondering if you are being in the present moment in the right way.
- Non-judgmentally. I think this is the hard one. How often do we allow life to happen without making some sort of judgment about it?
I think the easiest way to begin practicing mindfulness is a meditation where you observe your breathing. Pay attention to the air coming in…. and going out. Of course your mind will wander, just bring your attention back to your breath. Remember we are not judging, so don’t beat yourself up for wandering off, the mind just does that. Later this month we will have a video with a mindfulness of breathing meditation.
Of course this can be applied to more than just breathing. Think about how much better time with your family could be if you paid attention, on purpose, in the present moment and non-judgmentally when you were with them? Eating, walking, watching the sunrise, all become richer experiences if practiced in this way.
Yes, you will find this concept in Buddhism, don’t get all tripped up over that. Yes, I have greatly simplified it, but this is a tool and a practice that is much-needed in our world right now. Enjoy exploring mindfulness with me this month.