The Time of Transition

Copyright 2015 by R.A. Robbins

“I know now that the Spirit is trying to birth something in my life when I find myself craving silence and darkness, when I find myself editing my circle down to just the trusted few whom I know will midwife me through this birth. It’s nothing to fear; it’s the time of transition.”
― Sarah BesseyOut of Sorts: Making Peace with an Evolving Faith

Light Precedes Every Transition

Image Copyright 2017 by R.A. Robbins
“Light precedes every transition. Whether at the end of a tunnel, through a crack in the door or the flash of an idea, it is always there, heralding a new beginning.”
― Teresa TsalakyThe Transition Witness

Breaking Open

Copyright 2017 by R.A. Robbins

“How strange that the nature of life is change, yet the nature of human beings is to resist change. And how ironic that the difficult times we fear might ruin us are the very ones that can break us open and help us blossom into who we were meant to be.”
― Elizabeth LesserBroken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow

We Must Learn to be Still

Copyright 2015 by R.A. Robbins

“In transitions, we must learn to be still. Being still is, in part, about learning to be comfortable with ambiguity.” 
― Janet RebhanLearn To Be Still

Embrace the Change

Copyright 2015 by R.A. Robbins

“A lot of people resist transition and therefore never allow themselves to enjoy who they are. Embrace the change, no matter what it is; once you do, you can learn about the new world you’re in and take advantage of it.” — Nikki Giovanni
Read more at: https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/nikki_giovanni_452245?src=t_transition

Transition as a Process

Copyright 2016 by R. A. Robbins

“Most people do not resist change. What we resist is transition. Change is a situational shift. Transition, on the other hand, is the process of letting go of the way things used to be and then taking hold of the way they subsequently become. In between the letting go and the taking hold again, there is a chaotic but potentially creative “neutral zone” when things aren’t the old way, but aren’t really a new way yet either.” —  William Bridges

Out of my own life experiences I have often said, change is easy, learning to live changed is hard. Today’s quote beautifully describes that time between making a change or a “situational shift” and when we finally figure out what to do with it.

Think about some of the major changes in your life and the periods of transition that followed:  

  • From single to married.
  • From married back to single.
  • From being healthy to living with a life altering illness.
  • A lengthy period of illness followed by regained health.
  • The death of a parent.
  • The death of a child.  
  • From student to professional.
  • Loss of a job.
  • Retirement
  • Weight loss or gain.

How could life be different if we started being gentle with ourselves when faced with life changes?  What if instead of trying to rush through the turmoil and even grief that accompanies these sometimes life altering changes we allowed ourselves to begin the process of letting go of the way things used to be and then taking hold of the way they subsequently become.

Even major life changes that are happy ones require us to go through this transition period.  As much as we might love our significant other, learning to live with another person has it’s difficult moments.  Finally landing that job you spent years in school preparing for does not mean you don’t have to learn how to actually do that job in a real life situation. — You got the job, the school you went to taught you the theory of how to do it, but how does this employer want it done?

Life changes are part of life itself. To fight such changes is to  ignore who you truly are: A living, breathing soul on a planet of other living souls all creative and desiring to express that creativity as best we can. However living on a planet with billions of creative beings who all have the ability to make planetary life changes for all us we must learn to be flexible in our own ability to accept change is essential.

The more people there are on this planet of creative people, the more rapid the changes in our lives become. This can create an experience which Alvin Toffler calls Future Shock in his 1984 book where he says the difficulty of changes in our life situation is its rapidity. In the first paragraph of this book he says:

“The acceleration of change in our time is, itself, an elemental force. This accelerative thrust has personal and psychological, as well as sociological, consequences.”

We all are subject to experiencing this “future shock” syndrome. I know I have  experienced it often through my life. In fact this blog would not have ever existed had I not worked through the shock of the future telling me (in the form of my husband) that I would be left behind and stuck in the past if I did not get over my aversion to typing.  Anyone have else have a very strict high school typing teacher who (unintentionally) managed to turn learning to type into a nightmare? Without typing, you can’t use the current internet system. Without the internet, I would have been stuck in the sea of the past.

So we must be willing and skilled in accepting change. It can be fun, adventurous, challenging and very beneficial. It is not necessarily losing the “good old days” simplicity of the past but rather an excitingly new adventure into a new future with new possibilities.

What are the challenges you are facing brought to you by the passage of time? Perhaps we can help one another with ways to learn how to cope with “future shock” and daily life changes.

Transitions

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

The Espirational.com theme for October is “Transitions.”

The world around us is in a constant state of change, often forcing us to change too.  Scattered among the changes are the major life transitions we all face throughout life, from birth to death with some good ones like moving from childhood to adolescence and adolescence to adulthood, marriage (and sometimes divorce), aging, career changes and spiritual awakening scattered in between.

So how do we navigate this maze of transitions throughout our life?  This is what we will explore during October here at Espirational.com

 

 

It Is Well With My Soul

I grew up on hymns.  They are still in my mind and my soul, so I wanted to end this month of music with not just any hymn, but one of the grand old hymns of the church.  I had many to choose from, but inner guidance was telling me to choose It is Well With My Soul.

There is an amazing story behind this hymn which was written by Horatio Spafford (1828-1888) and was born out of great personal tragedy and loss.  First his son died, then he lost his personal fortune when the Chicago First destroyed his real estate investments.  Several years later he sent his wife and four daughters by ship to Europe, planning to join them later.  The ship wrecked on the way and then the dreaded telegram from his wife arrived.  The girls had not made it off the ship.  On the ship to meet his wife he wrote those words which have given comfort to so many.  The poem moved composer  Philip Bliss (1838-1876) to write the music for this great hymn which has given comfort to so many.

Please take a minute to listen to this beautiful A Cappella rendition of It Is Well With My Soul by Vocal Point from Brigham Young University.

 

– A 10 Minute Vacation for the Soul

%d bloggers like this: